{"id":7216,"date":"2020-02-26T03:48:27","date_gmt":"2020-02-26T03:48:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/comedy-romance.blog\/?p=7216"},"modified":"2020-02-26T04:38:13","modified_gmt":"2020-02-26T04:38:13","slug":"the-characteristics-of-bad-communication-mental-health","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mind55555.com\/tr\/2020\/02\/26\/the-characteristics-of-bad-communication-mental-health\/","title":{"rendered":"THE CHARACTERISTICS OF BAD COMMUNICATION [MENTAL HEALTH]"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1- Truth: You insist that you are &#8221;right&#8221; and the other person is &#8221;wrong.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2- Blame- You say that the problem is the other person&#8217;s fault.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3-Martyrdom: You claim that you are an innocent victim.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">4<strong>-Put-down: You imply that the other person is a loser because he or she &#8221; always&#8221; or &#8221; never&#8221; does certain things.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5- Hopelessness- You give up and insist there is no point in trying.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>6- Demandingness: You say you are entitleds to better treatment but you refuse to ask for what you want in a direct straightforward way. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>7- Denial- You insist that you don&#8217;t feel angry, hurt, or sad when you really do.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>8- Passive aggression &#8211; You pout or withdraw or say nothing you may storm out of the room or slam doors.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>9- Self-blame &#8211; Instead of dealing with the problem you act as if you are an awful terrible person.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">10- <strong>Helping: Instead of hearing how depressed , hurt, or angry the other person feels , you try to &#8221;solve the problem&#8221; or &#8221;help&#8221; him or her.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>11- Sarcasm- Your words or tone of voice convey tension or hostility which you aren&#8217;t openly acknowledging .<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>12- Scapegoating- You suggest that the other person has a problem and that you are sane , happy and uninvolved in the conflict.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>13- Defensiveness- You refuse to admit any wrong doing or imperfection .<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>14- Counterattack &#8211; Instead  acknowledging how the other person feels, you respond to their critcism by critciizing them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>15- Diversion- Instead of dealing with how you both feel in the here-and-now, you list grievance about past injustices. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-7223 jetpack-simple-payments-wrapper\">\n\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-product\">\n\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-product-image\"><div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"167\" height=\"250\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mind55555.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/002-3.jpeg?fit=167%2C250&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" data-attachment-id=\"6323\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/mind55555.com\/tr\/2020\/01\/29\/overcome-stress-by-listening-music-some-time\/002-29\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mind55555.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/002-3.jpeg?fit=167%2C250&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"167,250\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-title=\"002\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mind55555.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/002-3.jpeg?fit=167%2C250&amp;ssl=1\" \/><\/div><\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-details\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-title\"><p>BUY ONLINE MY ROMANTIC COMEDIC PLAY BOOK<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-description\"><p>MY HEART NOT MY EYES It is a romantic comedy play book by Dr. Fawzy Masaoud eBook is \u00a34 and you will get the eBook copy on your mail<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-price\"><p>&#163;4,00<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-purchase-message\" id=\"jetpack-simple-payments-7223_6afa46580f0275.92862222-message-container\"><\/div><div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-purchase-box\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<input class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-items-number\" type=\"number\" value=\"1\" min=\"1\" id=\"jetpack-simple-payments-7223_6afa46580f0275.92862222_number\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-button\" id=\"jetpack-simple-payments-7223_6afa46580f0275.92862222_button\"><\/div><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1- Truth: You insist that you are &#8221;right&#8221; 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