{"id":7263,"date":"2020-03-01T03:47:39","date_gmt":"2020-03-01T03:47:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/comedy-romance.blog\/?p=7263"},"modified":"2020-03-01T03:47:39","modified_gmt":"2020-03-01T03:47:39","slug":"five-secrets-of-intimate-communicationskill4-mental-health","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mind55555.com\/tr\/2020\/03\/01\/five-secrets-of-intimate-communicationskill4-mental-health\/","title":{"rendered":"FIVE SECRETS OF INTIMATE COMMUNICATION(SKILL4) [MENTAL HEALTH]"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                                  <strong><span style=\"text-decoration:underline;\"> SELF EXPRESSION SKILL (1): &#8221;I FEEL&#8221; STATEMENTS<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>nstead of arguing or getting defensive , you can express your feelings with &#8221; I feel&#8221; statements. The method is incredibly simple . All you do is say &#8221; I feel&#8221; and add a word that describes how you feel.You can use a word like annoyed , hurt , worried , frustrated, concerned, or sad . <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>For example you can say , &#8221; I feel nervous&#8221; or &#8221; I feel angry.&#8221; There are several types of feelings that you can express with &#8221; I feel&#8221; statements:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration:underline;\">1- Negative feelings<\/span>. Examples include &#8221; I feel angry,&#8221; or &#8221; I feel criticized , &#8221; &#8221; I feel put down,&#8221; &#8221; I feel frustrated,&#8221; I feel coerced,&#8221; &#8221; I feel misunderstood.&#8221; <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration:underline;\">2- Vulnerable feelings.<\/span> &#8221; I feel sad , &#8221; I feel rejected, &#8221; &#8221; I feel hurt,&#8221; &#8221; I feel unloved,&#8221; I feel disappointed,&#8221; I feel ignored,&#8221; &#8221; I feel intimidated , &#8221; I feel attacked,&#8221; or &#8221; I feel inadequate.&#8221; <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration:underline;\">3- Wishes and desires. <\/span>&#8221; I would like to spend more time with you,&#8221; I want you to work out of the problem and feel close to each other, &#8221; I really want you to be on time,&#8221; or &#8221; I would like you to try to understand my point of view.&#8221; <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8221; I feel&#8221; statements are in sharp contrast to &#8221;you&#8221; statements, like&#8221; You are making me mad.&#8221; or &#8221; You&#8217;ve got no right to say that .&#8221; or &#8221;You&#8217;re wrong about that.&#8221; These &#8221; you&#8221; statements sound critical , blaming and judgmental . They will always trigger a fight or an argument .<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-7279 jetpack-simple-payments-wrapper\">\n\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-product\">\n\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-product-image\"><div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"167\" height=\"250\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mind55555.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/002-2.jpeg?fit=167%2C250&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" data-attachment-id=\"6164\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/mind55555.com\/tr\/2020\/01\/25\/history-of-culturalist-therapy-in-mental-health\/002-28\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mind55555.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/002-2.jpeg?fit=167%2C250&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"167,250\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-title=\"002\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mind55555.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/002-2.jpeg?fit=167%2C250&amp;ssl=1\" \/><\/div><\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-details\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-title\"><p>BUY ONLINE MY ROMANTIC COMEDIC PLAY BOOK<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-description\"><p>MY HEART NOT MY EYES It is a romantic comedy play book by Dr. Fawzy Masaoud eBook is \u00a34 and you will get the eBook copy on your mail<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-price\"><p>&#163;4,00<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-purchase-message\" id=\"jetpack-simple-payments-7279_6afa350012df87.99689858-message-container\"><\/div><div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-purchase-box\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<input class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-items-number\" type=\"number\" value=\"1\" min=\"1\" id=\"jetpack-simple-payments-7279_6afa350012df87.99689858_number\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-button\" id=\"jetpack-simple-payments-7279_6afa350012df87.99689858_button\"><\/div><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>SELF EXPRESSION SKILL (1): &#8221;I FEEL&#8221; STATEMENTS nstead of arguing or getting defensive , you can express your feelings with &#8221; I feel&#8221; statements. 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