{"id":7541,"date":"2020-03-30T06:37:18","date_gmt":"2020-03-30T06:37:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/comedy-romance.blog\/?p=7541"},"modified":"2020-04-12T17:38:39","modified_gmt":"2020-04-12T17:38:39","slug":"how-your-need-to-solve-problems-keeps-you-stuck-mental-health","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mind55555.com\/tr\/2020\/03\/30\/how-your-need-to-solve-problems-keeps-you-stuck-mental-health\/","title":{"rendered":"HOW YOUR NEED TO SOLVE PROBLEMS KEEPS YOU STUCK [MENTAL HEALTH]"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>One attitude that gets in the way of good communication is the need to solve problems . I often tell troubled couples that they must refuse to solve the problems in their relationship if they hope to experience greater love and closeness. This may sound like a paradox but it&#8217;s really not. If two people are upset with each other and are arguing about some &#8221;problems ,&#8221; they wiil usually go round and round in circles when they are trying to solve it. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>This bickering will continue as long as they feel angry with each other . Their feelings need to be expressed in a nondefensive way &#8211; and listened to. But if their anger isn&#8217;t share openly &#8211; and it almost never is &#8211; all their attempts to solve the problem will fail. As long as they feel angry and at odds , they will need to get back at each other. This makes it impossible to solve the problem. In contrast , if they share feelings and listen in a spirit of trust, and feel cared about and respected once again, they will find it far easier to solve the problem that bother them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-7546 jetpack-simple-payments-wrapper\">\n\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-product\">\n\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-product-image\"><div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"167\" height=\"250\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mind55555.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/002-3.jpeg?fit=167%2C250&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" data-attachment-id=\"6323\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/mind55555.com\/tr\/2020\/01\/29\/overcome-stress-by-listening-music-some-time\/002-29\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mind55555.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/002-3.jpeg?fit=167%2C250&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"167,250\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-title=\"002\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mind55555.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/002-3.jpeg?fit=167%2C250&amp;ssl=1\" \/><\/div><\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-details\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-title\"><p>BUY ONLINE MY ROMANTIC COMEDIC PLAY BOOK<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-description\"><p>MY HEART NOT MY EYES It is a romantic comedy play book by Dr. Fawzy Masaoud eBook is \u00a38.80 and you will get the eBook copy on your mail<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-price\"><p>&#163;8,80<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-purchase-message\" id=\"jetpack-simple-payments-7546_6adfef98733a01.38862538-message-container\"><\/div><div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-purchase-box\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<input class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-items-number\" type=\"number\" value=\"1\" min=\"1\" id=\"jetpack-simple-payments-7546_6adfef98733a01.38862538_number\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"jetpack-simple-payments-button\" id=\"jetpack-simple-payments-7546_6adfef98733a01.38862538_button\"><\/div><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong> <\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One attitude that gets in the way of good communication is the need to solve problems . 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