One of the commonest complaints I hear is” My spouse always has to be right. ”He or she is never willing to listen to my point of view.” The biggest mistake you can make in this situation is to promote your own ideas and try to persuade the other person that they should listen to you. This never works. You need to give in order to get. . If you want to get some understanding , you may have to give some understanding first.
First, ask yourself why the other person is being so argumentative and stubborn. Maybe part of the problem is that you’re not listening to them! Why would they keep harping away at you if they felt you had gotten the point? Rhey wouldn’t! Every stubborn , argumentative person has an equally stubborn partner who is defensive and argumentative who refuses to listen to them.
This problem will disappear if you use the three listening skills :the disarming technique , empathy and inquiry. Of the three , disarming is probably the most powerful and important. The moment you find the truth in the other person’s point of view, they will soften and suddenly become more open to your point of view. In order to do this, you must give up the notion that you are the only one who is right and that what they have to say is pure and utter nonsense . there’s always something important and valid about what the other person is saying that’s being ignored and resisted . That ‘s precisely why they get dogmatic and furious.
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What if you and your spouse have been through a terrible trauma like losing a child and your spouse refuses to deal with the pain and strikes out in anger even 3 years later. How do you help them when you can’t even talk to them about the problem? I feel like a punching bag, but I know why. It doesn’t make it any easier. We are all suffering, my entire family, but I pray everyday that my spouse will get over the anger and actually talk to me. What can I do?
I appreciate your serious pains , to lose a beloved one in the life , it is so painful sadness.
In order to overcome sadness gradually and rescues the others from serious sever mental health disorders, you can do these ways step by step :
1- Make events by the name of your child name . His father and mother collect their friends , relatives and your child’s friends too.
The event can be at your home. His father and mother talk about their son in the event, also the friends talk too .
You can watch videos and pictures about your child together .
2- His father ,mother and friends go to the grave and put flowers at the grave .
His father and mother talk to their child sometime.
3- His father and his mother write together some information about their child in a book everyday .
4- His father and mother try to go the park to walk and talk some time . I appreciate the situation is not good because of Coronavirus. But you can try to walk one hour and protect yourselves well by drinking hot lemon before going out and when you come back home.
5- After the situation in the world gets better , his father and mother should travel to different countries .
6- If the case gets bad , you should go to a good Psychotherapist.
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Very relatable. Sometimes no matter what we do to communicate; the other person isn’t at a stage they will ever be receptive no matter what you do. Knowing when it’s your own way of communicating that is an issue versus if the other person just will not ever be open to any communication is imprortabt. Have to know when to keep trying to communicate versus when to give up and walk away.
Thank you so much for your comment.
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Thank you so much for sharing well .
See you soon in London if you can in Summer because the coronavirus will be removed all the world .
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Take care that Coronavirus prefers to get into the lungs to destroy them .
So , it is so important to you and your family nowadays to do :-
1- Drink warm water from time to time to push any virus from the throat into the stomach and the stomach is so strong to kill any virus .
2- Sitting under sun some of time at home beside a window or your small garden because the sunlight kills the Coronavirus within 2 minutes if there are Coronaviruses on the body skin or cloths .
3- Walking much time at home or play any soft exercises to make the blood circulation stronger then the immunity system will be stronger too .
4- Drink lemon , eat fresh fruits everyday to make the immunity system stronger.
Being older and only married to my current husband for three years (I was a widow for several years when we married), I sometimes still forget to consider him when I make decisions. But I’m relearning and things are a lot more peaceful now.
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The minute it dawned upon me that I am no less stubborn than my wife things started changing for me and communication got a heck of a lot easier