Making relatives happier with you can involve a variety of gestures and behaviors. Here are 40 ideas to consider:

1.  Show genuine interest in their lives.
2.  Remember important dates like birthdays and anniversaries.
3.  Listen actively when they speak.
4.  Offer help without being asked.
5.  Spend quality time together.
6.  Be respectful of their opinions, even if you disagree.
7.  Share family stories and traditions.
8.  Express gratitude for their support.
9.  Be empathetic and understanding.
10. Apologize when you’re wrong.
11. Be reliable and keep your promises.
12. Offer compliments and encouragement.
13. Be inclusive and involve them in your plans.
14. Show appreciation for their efforts.
15. Share your own successes and challenges.
16. Be willing to compromise and find common ground.
17. Respect their boundaries and privacy.
18. Be a good listener and offer emotional support.
19. Help out with chores or tasks when visiting.
20. Offer to cook a meal or bring a dish to family gatherings.
21. Communicate openly and honestly.
22. Be supportive during difficult times.
23. Celebrate their achievements and milestones.
24. Show interest in their hobbies and passions.
25. Be willing to forgive and let go of grudges.
26. Be patient and understanding, especially with older relatives.
27. Offer to run errands or do favors for them.
28. Send thoughtful messages or cards just to say hello.
29. Include them in decision-making when appropriate.
30. Share laughter and create happy memories together.
31. Respect their cultural or religious beliefs.
32. Attend family events and gatherings whenever possible.
33. Be polite and courteous at all times.
34. Offer to help with technology or other challenges they may face.
35. Show appreciation for their wisdom and experience.
36. Share resources or information that may be helpful to them.
37. Be supportive of their goals and aspirations.
38. Be proactive in maintaining the relationship.
39. Show kindness and compassion in your interactions.
40. Love them unconditionally and let them know they’re valued.